Take ur time for thisz*** God blees
Have you always wondered why some people are quick to say
"i don't want to talk about it" whenever a new person in their life asks why they broke up with an ex?
I guess most times people who are quick to waive the
discussion might just have something sensitive they do not want to share because in many instances we tend to allow the feeling of initial gragra cloud our sense of reasoning and just fall in love with someone who was really a nightmare to his or her ex(es). No wonder why many companies ask for letter of reference from your past employer or someone that cantreally vouch for you.
My advice to ladies or guys who seem to lose their sense of reasoning due to
"desperation to get married" is to calm down and do a serious research on whoever they want to settle with.I believe if we all imbibe the culture of insisting that
we speak one on one with an ex of our potential new
partner or dig into their past, we will save ourselves
unpleasant surprises and avoidable heart aches.
This is not just about believing whatever he or she tells you due to the decietful nature of people' but its about making a thorough due diligence by speaking to a friend,neighbor,sibling, co- worker or even the ex of that person just to have a good picture of who you are about to commit yourself to.
I know this sounds funny but i believe its reasonable and this is the secret of long lasting marriages of our parents because in
those days,they don't joke with due diligence up to the generations of the great grand parents
of the potential
spouse.. lol!.
I hope this makes sense
Have you always wondered why some people are quick to say
"i don't want to talk about it" whenever a new person in their life asks why they broke up with an ex?
I guess most times people who are quick to waive the
discussion might just have something sensitive they do not want to share because in many instances we tend to allow the feeling of initial gragra cloud our sense of reasoning and just fall in love with someone who was really a nightmare to his or her ex(es). No wonder why many companies ask for letter of reference from your past employer or someone that cantreally vouch for you.
My advice to ladies or guys who seem to lose their sense of reasoning due to
"desperation to get married" is to calm down and do a serious research on whoever they want to settle with.I believe if we all imbibe the culture of insisting that
we speak one on one with an ex of our potential new
partner or dig into their past, we will save ourselves
unpleasant surprises and avoidable heart aches.
This is not just about believing whatever he or she tells you due to the decietful nature of people' but its about making a thorough due diligence by speaking to a friend,neighbor,sibling, co- worker or even the ex of that person just to have a good picture of who you are about to commit yourself to.
I know this sounds funny but i believe its reasonable and this is the secret of long lasting marriages of our parents because in
those days,they don't joke with due diligence up to the generations of the great grand parents
of the potential
spouse.. lol!.
I hope this makes sense
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